"In one way [the process to bring family] is fair, and in one way it's not fair. It's fair because the person who needs to meet with his family is me, and what the government is doing to me is helping me. And to help me, they need to get more proof that what I'm saying is real. If I look at it from that perspective, it's okay. It's also unfair, because for someone who is naïve, who doesn't know what's going on, to go through that process is very hard. Some people give up."